{"id":9067,"date":"2025-03-04T13:04:56","date_gmt":"2025-03-04T13:04:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/?p=9067"},"modified":"2026-10-26T13:59:44","modified_gmt":"2026-10-26T13:59:44","slug":"doubts-before-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/fr\/learn\/doubts-before-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"Est-il normal d'avoir des doutes avant de se marier ? Oui, beaucoup de couples en ont"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"cppw-protected cppw-protected--overlay\"><div class=\"cppw-excerpt cppw-excerpt--overlay\"><p>Yes, it is common. In a study of 232 newlywed couples, at least one partner in two-thirds of couples had felt uncertain about getting married, though wives&#039; doubts predicted a higher divorce rate. Scripture is silent on doubts before a wedding, but it tells of Joseph, who meant to end his betrothal to Mary until an angel changed his mind. Joseph is good company for any of us who hesitate. Matthew calls him &quot;a just man&quot; at the very moment\u2026<\/p>\n<\/div>\t\t<div class=\"cppw-paywall paywp-paywall\" data-required-level=\"25\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"cppw-lock-mark\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/span>\n\t\t\t<h2>Continue reading with a subscription<\/h2>\n\t\t\t<p>Get unlimited access to all our premium content and exclusive features.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"cppw-paywall__actions\">\n\t\t\t\t<a class=\"cppw-button wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/fr\/become-a-member\/\">Subscribe now<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<a class=\"cppw-login-link\" href=\"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/fr\/login\/\">Already a subscriber? Sign in<\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<p class=\"cppw-paywall__microcopy\">Enjoy unlimited access, cancel anytime.<\/p>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Yes. In one study two-thirds of newlywed couples included a partner who had felt doubts, and wives&#039; doubts predicted divorce. The Bible sets no rule on it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":111649,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[41],"tags":[],"series":[],"class_list":["post-9067","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-relationships"],"mb":[],"acf":[],"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":9131,"url":"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/fr\/learn\/is-breaking-up-with-someone-a-sin\/","url_meta":{"origin":9067,"position":0},"title":"Is breaking up with someone a sin?","author":"Christian Pure Team","date":"septembre 26, 2024","format":false,"excerpt":"No. The Bible never mentions dating, and no verse requires an unmarried couple to stay together, but its commands on truth and kindness govern how it ends.","rel":"","context":"Dans &quot;Love And Relationships&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Love And Relationships","link":"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/fr\/learn\/category\/love-relationships\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"The Ascension, in the style of Mantegna","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/christianpure.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hf620-img_00553.webp?fit=900%2C663&ssl=1&resize=350%2C200","width":350,"height":200,"srcset":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/christianpure.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hf620-img_00553.webp?fit=900%2C663&ssl=1&resize=350%2C200 1x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/christianpure.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hf620-img_00553.webp?fit=900%2C663&ssl=1&resize=525%2C300 1.5x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/christianpure.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hf620-img_00553.webp?fit=900%2C663&ssl=1&resize=700%2C400 2x"},"classes":[]},{"id":11560,"url":"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/fr\/learn\/joseph-age-jesus-birth\/","url_meta":{"origin":9067,"position":1},"title":"How Old Was Joseph When Jesus Was Born? 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