{"id":9137,"date":"2024-09-12T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-09-12T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/?p=9137"},"modified":"2026-10-26T14:03:36","modified_gmt":"2026-10-26T14:03:36","slug":"is-it-unwise-to-keep-in-touch-with-ex-boyfriend","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/it\/learn\/is-it-unwise-to-keep-in-touch-with-ex-boyfriend\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c8 imprudente mantenere i contatti con un ex fidanzato? La Scrittura non lo dice"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"cppw-protected cppw-protected--overlay\"><div class=\"cppw-excerpt cppw-excerpt--overlay\"><p>Scripture does not say. The Bible never mentions ex-boyfriends or dating, so it gives no rule for or against keeping in touch. Studies of former couples find that contact tends to go worse for people who still want the relationship back or have not accepted its end, and better for those who have. So the question comes back to the heart. Proverbs asks us to keep it &quot;with all vigilance,&quot; because life flows from it. If we still hope for\u2026<\/p>\n<\/div>\t\t<div class=\"cppw-paywall paywp-paywall\" data-required-level=\"25\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"cppw-lock-mark\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/span>\n\t\t\t<h2>Continue reading with a subscription<\/h2>\n\t\t\t<p>Get unlimited access to all our premium content and exclusive features.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"cppw-paywall__actions\">\n\t\t\t\t<a class=\"cppw-button wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/it\/become-a-member\/\">Subscribe now<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<a class=\"cppw-login-link\" href=\"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/it\/login\/\">Already a subscriber? Sign in<\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<p class=\"cppw-paywall__microcopy\">Enjoy unlimited access, cancel anytime.<\/p>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Scripture does not say. Studies find contact with an ex goes worse for people who have not accepted the breakup and better for those who have.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":104208,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[41],"tags":[],"series":[],"class_list":["post-9137","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-relationships"],"mb":[],"acf":[],"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":9093,"url":"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/it\/learn\/friends-after-breakup-possible\/","url_meta":{"origin":9137,"position":0},"title":"Can Christians Stay Friends With an Ex? Yes, the Bible Sets No Rule Against It","author":"Christian Pure Team","date":"Ottobre 11, 2024","format":false,"excerpt":"Yes. 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