{"id":9093,"date":"2024-10-11T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-10-11T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/?p=9093"},"modified":"2026-09-21T15:13:28","modified_gmt":"2026-09-21T15:13:28","slug":"friends-after-breakup-possible","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/ja\/learn\/friends-after-breakup-possible\/","title":{"rendered":"\u4ed8\u304d\u5408\u3046\u524d\u306b\u53cb\u4eba\u3067\u3042\u308b\u3079\u304d\u304b\uff1f\u8056\u66f8\u306f\u3069\u3061\u3089\u306e\u30eb\u30fc\u30eb\u3082\u5b9a\u3081\u3066\u3044\u306a\u3044"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"cppw-protected cppw-protected--overlay\"><div class=\"cppw-excerpt cppw-excerpt--overlay\"><p>Yes. No verse in the Bible forbids a Christian to stay friends with a former boyfriend or girlfriend, and Scripture says nothing about dating breakups, because it describes betrothal and marriage rather than dating. The passages that bear on the question concern guarding the heart, sexual purity, forgiveness and living at peace with others. Does the Bible say anything about breakups? Not about the end of a dating relationship. The nearest cases in Scripture involve betrothal, which was binding in\u2026<\/p>\n<\/div>\t\t<div class=\"cppw-paywall paywp-paywall\" data-required-level=\"25\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"cppw-lock-mark\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/span>\n\t\t\t<h2>Continue reading with a subscription<\/h2>\n\t\t\t<p>Get unlimited access to all our premium content and exclusive features.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"cppw-paywall__actions\">\n\t\t\t\t<a class=\"cppw-button wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/ja\/become-a-member\/\">Subscribe now<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<a class=\"cppw-login-link\" href=\"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/ja\/login\/\">Already a subscriber? Sign in<\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<p class=\"cppw-paywall__microcopy\">Enjoy unlimited access, cancel anytime.<\/p>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Yes. No verse forbids it, and the Bible says nothing about dating breakups, but its teaching on guarding the heart, purity and forgiveness still applies.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":104440,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[41],"tags":[],"series":[],"class_list":["post-9093","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-relationships"],"mb":[],"acf":[],"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":9131,"url":"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/ja\/learn\/is-breaking-up-with-someone-a-sin\/","url_meta":{"origin":9093,"position":0},"title":"Is breaking up with someone a sin?","author":"Christian Pure Team","date":"9\u6708 26, 2024","format":false,"excerpt":"No. The Bible never mentions dating, and no verse requires an unmarried couple to stay together, but its commands on truth and kindness govern how it ends.","rel":"","context":"Love And Relationships","block_context":{"text":"Love And Relationships","link":"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/ja\/learn\/category\/love-relationships\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"The Ascension, in the style of Mantegna","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/christianpure.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hf620-img_00553.webp?fit=900%2C663&ssl=1&resize=350%2C200","width":350,"height":200,"srcset":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/christianpure.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hf620-img_00553.webp?fit=900%2C663&ssl=1&resize=350%2C200 1x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/christianpure.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hf620-img_00553.webp?fit=900%2C663&ssl=1&resize=525%2C300 1.5x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/christianpure.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hf620-img_00553.webp?fit=900%2C663&ssl=1&resize=700%2C400 2x"},"classes":[]},{"id":9067,"url":"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/ja\/learn\/doubts-before-marriage\/","url_meta":{"origin":9093,"position":1},"title":"Is It Normal to Have Doubts Before Getting Married? 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In studies of nearly 1,900 people, two thirds said their romance began as a friendship.","rel":"","context":"Love And Relationships","block_context":{"text":"Love And Relationships","link":"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/ja\/learn\/category\/love-relationships\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"The fall of Jericho, in the style of Fra Angelico","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/christianpure.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hf620-img_00029.webp?fit=900%2C675&ssl=1&resize=350%2C200","width":350,"height":200,"srcset":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/christianpure.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hf620-img_00029.webp?fit=900%2C675&ssl=1&resize=350%2C200 1x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/christianpure.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hf620-img_00029.webp?fit=900%2C675&ssl=1&resize=525%2C300 1.5x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/christianpure.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hf620-img_00029.webp?fit=900%2C675&ssl=1&resize=700%2C400 2x"},"classes":[]},{"id":9072,"url":"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/ja\/learn\/is-it-a-sin-to-date-friends-ex\/","url_meta":{"origin":9093,"position":5},"title":"Is Dating My Ex&#8217;s Friend Against Biblical Principles?","author":"Christian Pure Team","date":"10\u6708 21, 2024","format":false,"excerpt":"No passage forbids it. 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