{"id":7085,"date":"2024-08-11T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-08-11T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/?p=7085"},"modified":"2024-09-16T13:58:37","modified_gmt":"2024-09-16T13:58:37","slug":"holding-grudges-vs-not-forgetting-vs-being-cautious-whats-the-difference","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/nl\/learn\/holding-grudges-vs-not-forgetting-vs-being-cautious-whats-the-difference\/","title":{"rendered":"Wrok koesteren versus niet vergeten versus voorzichtig zijn: wat is het verschil?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"cppw-protected cppw-protected--overlay\"><div class=\"cppw-excerpt cppw-excerpt--overlay\"><p>What does the Bible say about holding grudges? The Bible speaks clearly and consistently about the dangers of holding grudges and the importance of forgiveness. Our Lord Jesus Christ himself taught us to forgive others as we have been forgiven by God (Matthew 6:14-15). This teaching is at the very heart of our faith, for it reflects the boundless mercy and love that God has shown to us through Christ&#039;s sacrifice on the cross. The Scriptures warn us about the\u2026<\/p>\n<\/div>\t\t<div class=\"cppw-paywall paywp-paywall\" data-required-level=\"25\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"cppw-lock-mark\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/span>\n\t\t\t<h2>Continue reading with a subscription<\/h2>\n\t\t\t<p>Get unlimited access to all our premium content and exclusive features.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"cppw-paywall__actions\">\n\t\t\t\t<a class=\"cppw-button wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/nl\/become-a-member\/\">Subscribe now<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<a class=\"cppw-login-link\" href=\"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/nl\/login\/\">Already a subscriber? 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Learn how to release resentment, understand the difference between resentment and grudges, and explore the true meaning behind holding onto grudges.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":104677,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[41,42],"tags":[],"series":[],"class_list":["post-7085","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-relationships","category-marriage"],"mb":[],"acf":[],"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":46316,"url":"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/nl\/learn\/bible-verses-grudges\/","url_meta":{"origin":7085,"position":0},"title":"19 Bible Verses About Grudges","author":"Christian Pure Team","date":"juli 18, 2025","format":false,"excerpt":"Explore powerful Bible verses about grudges, forgiveness, and healing to inspire peace and understanding in your life.","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Bible Verses&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Bible Verses","link":"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/nl\/learn\/category\/bible-verses\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"The Sermon on the Mount, in the style of Fra Angelico","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/christianpure.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hf620-img_00053.webp?fit=900%2C675&ssl=1&resize=350%2C200","width":350,"height":200,"srcset":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/christianpure.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hf620-img_00053.webp?fit=900%2C675&ssl=1&resize=350%2C200 1x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/christianpure.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hf620-img_00053.webp?fit=900%2C675&ssl=1&resize=525%2C300 1.5x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/christianpure.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hf620-img_00053.webp?fit=900%2C675&ssl=1&resize=700%2C400 2x"},"classes":[]},{"id":46785,"url":"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/nl\/learn\/bible-verses-resentment\/","url_meta":{"origin":7085,"position":1},"title":"14 Bible Verses About Resentment","author":"Christian Pure Team","date":"juni 21, 2025","format":false,"excerpt":"Discover powerful Bible verses about resentment that offer guidance, healing, and wisdom for overcoming negative feelings and finding peace.","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Bible Verses&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Bible Verses","link":"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/nl\/learn\/category\/bible-verses\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"Abraham and Isaac, in the style of Georgia O'Keeffe","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/christianpure.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hf620-img_00287.webp?fit=900%2C663&ssl=1&resize=350%2C200","width":350,"height":200,"srcset":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/christianpure.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hf620-img_00287.webp?fit=900%2C663&ssl=1&resize=350%2C200 1x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/christianpure.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hf620-img_00287.webp?fit=900%2C663&ssl=1&resize=525%2C300 1.5x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/christianpure.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hf620-img_00287.webp?fit=900%2C663&ssl=1&resize=700%2C400 2x"},"classes":[]},{"id":46737,"url":"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/nl\/learn\/bible-verses-bitterness\/","url_meta":{"origin":7085,"position":2},"title":"15 Bible Verses About Bitterness","author":"Christian Pure Team","date":"november 18, 2025","format":false,"excerpt":"Discover uplifting Bible verses that address bitterness, offering guidance and encouragement to heal your heart and find peace.","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Bible Verses&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Bible Verses","link":"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/nl\/learn\/category\/bible-verses\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"Jesus walking on the water, in the style of Michelangelo","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/christianpure.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hf620-img_00221.webp?fit=900%2C663&ssl=1&resize=350%2C200","width":350,"height":200,"srcset":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/christianpure.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hf620-img_00221.webp?fit=900%2C663&ssl=1&resize=350%2C200 1x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/christianpure.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hf620-img_00221.webp?fit=900%2C663&ssl=1&resize=525%2C300 1.5x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/christianpure.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hf620-img_00221.webp?fit=900%2C663&ssl=1&resize=700%2C400 2x"},"classes":[]},{"id":8352,"url":"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/nl\/learn\/bible-verses-about-revenge\/","url_meta":{"origin":7085,"position":3},"title":"17 Bible Verses About Revenge","author":"Christian Pure Team","date":"september 16, 2026","format":false,"excerpt":"Explore biblical teachings on vengeance, forgiveness, and overcoming evil with good. 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