{"id":9097,"date":"2024-10-10T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-10-10T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/?p=9097"},"modified":"2026-10-27T13:24:43","modified_gmt":"2026-10-27T13:24:43","slug":"how-to-deal-with-lust","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/nl\/learn\/how-to-deal-with-lust\/","title":{"rendered":"Worstelen met lust als alleenstaande christelijke vrouw: wat helpt"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"cppw-protected cppw-protected--overlay\"><div class=\"cppw-excerpt cppw-excerpt--overlay\"><p>Yes, single Christian women struggle with lust, and you are not strange or alone if you do. Desire is part of how God made you; lust is desire that takes over the mind and runs ahead of God&#039;s time. We deal with it honestly: by naming what feeds it, telling someone we trust, and bringing it to God without shame. The Song of Solomon gives a woman&#039;s voice to all of this. The bride sings openly of her longing for\u2026<\/p>\n<\/div>\t\t<div class=\"cppw-paywall paywp-paywall\" data-required-level=\"25\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"cppw-lock-mark\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/span>\n\t\t\t<h2>Continue reading with a subscription<\/h2>\n\t\t\t<p>Get unlimited access to all our premium content and exclusive features.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"cppw-paywall__actions\">\n\t\t\t\t<a class=\"cppw-button wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/nl\/become-a-member\/\">Subscribe now<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<a class=\"cppw-login-link\" href=\"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/nl\/login\/\">Already a subscriber? Sign in<\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<p class=\"cppw-paywall__microcopy\">Enjoy unlimited access, cancel anytime.<\/p>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Yes, Christian women struggle with lust too. What the Bible says to single women about desire, steps that help this week, and grace after a fall.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":104404,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[41],"tags":[],"series":[],"class_list":["post-9097","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-relationships"],"mb":[],"acf":[],"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":5820,"url":"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/nl\/learn\/is-masturbation-a-sin-biblical-perspectives-on-self-pleasure\/","url_meta":{"origin":9097,"position":0},"title":"Is Masturbation a Sin? The Bible Is Silent, and Churches Differ","author":"Christian Pure Team","date":"juni 30, 2024","format":false,"excerpt":"The Bible never mentions masturbation. Catholics call it gravely wrong, the Orthodox Church in America sinful; evangelicals are divided. 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