{"id":9152,"date":"2024-09-06T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-09-06T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/?p=9152"},"modified":"2024-08-22T12:59:18","modified_gmt":"2024-08-22T12:59:18","slug":"go-slow-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/nl\/learn\/go-slow-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"Wat betekent het om \u201crustig aan te doen\u201d in een relatie?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"cppw-protected cppw-protected--overlay\"><div class=\"cppw-excerpt cppw-excerpt--overlay\"><p>What does the Bible say about pacing in romantic relationships? While the Bible does not speak directly about &quot;pacing&quot; relationships in the modern sense, it offers timeless wisdom that can guide us in this area. The Scriptures emphasize patience, wisdom, and purity in matters of the heart. Consider the beautiful poetry of the Song of Solomon, which celebrates romantic love but also cautions: &quot;Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires&quot; (Song of Solomon 2:7). This verse reminds\u2026<\/p>\n<\/div>\t\t<div class=\"cppw-paywall paywp-paywall\" data-required-level=\"25\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"cppw-lock-mark\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/span>\n\t\t\t<h2>Continue reading with a subscription<\/h2>\n\t\t\t<p>Get unlimited access to all our premium content and exclusive features.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"cppw-paywall__actions\">\n\t\t\t\t<a class=\"cppw-button wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/nl\/become-a-member\/\">Subscribe now<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<a class=\"cppw-login-link\" href=\"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/nl\/login\/\">Already a subscriber? 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Learn to honor God and grow spiritually together.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":104194,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[41],"tags":[],"series":[],"class_list":["post-9152","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-relationships"],"mb":[],"acf":[],"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":7974,"url":"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/nl\/learn\/god-plan-bible-finding-love\/","url_meta":{"origin":9152,"position":0},"title":"God&#8217;s Plan: What The Bible Says About Finding Love","author":"Christian Pure Team","date":"augustus 31, 2024","format":false,"excerpt":"Discover what the Bible says about God's role in marriage, true love, qualities of a spouse, dating guidance, and singleness.","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Love And Relationships&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Love And Relationships","link":"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/nl\/learn\/category\/love-relationships\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"The wedding at Cana, in the style of Raphael","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/christianpure.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hf620-img_00398.webp?fit=900%2C663&ssl=1&resize=350%2C200","width":350,"height":200,"srcset":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/christianpure.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hf620-img_00398.webp?fit=900%2C663&ssl=1&resize=350%2C200 1x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/christianpure.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hf620-img_00398.webp?fit=900%2C663&ssl=1&resize=525%2C300 1.5x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/christianpure.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hf620-img_00398.webp?fit=900%2C663&ssl=1&resize=700%2C400 2x"},"classes":[]},{"id":7176,"url":"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/nl\/learn\/biblical-romance-the-bibles-teachings-on-romantic-love\/","url_meta":{"origin":9152,"position":1},"title":"Biblical Romance: The Bible&#8217;s Teachings on Romantic Love","author":"Christian Pure Team","date":"augustus 15, 2024","format":false,"excerpt":"Explore the Bible's insights on romance and love. 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