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in God\u2019s love and guidance. As the prophet Jeremiah reminds us, \u201c\u2018For I know the plans I have for you,\u2019 declares the Lord, \u2018plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future'\u201d (Jeremiah 29:11). If you sincerely seek God\u2019s will with an open heart, He will guide you, whether that means working through difficulties or, in some cases, letting 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