{"id":9067,"date":"2025-03-04T13:04:56","date_gmt":"2025-03-04T13:04:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/?p=9067"},"modified":"2026-09-21T15:13:40","modified_gmt":"2026-09-21T15:13:40","slug":"doubts-before-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/zh\/learn\/doubts-before-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"\u5a5a\u524d\u6709\u7591\u8651\u6b63\u5e38\u5417\uff1f\u662f\u7684\uff0c\u8bb8\u591a\u592b\u5987\u90fd\u6709"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"cppw-protected cppw-protected--overlay\"><div class=\"cppw-excerpt cppw-excerpt--overlay\"><p>Yes. In a study of 232 newlywed couples, at least one partner in two-thirds of the couples had felt uncertain about getting married, though the wives&#039; doubts predicted a higher divorce rate. Scripture does not address doubts before a wedding, but it records Joseph deciding to end his betrothal to Mary before an angel changed his mind. What does the Bible say about doubts before marriage? No passage speaks about doubts before a wedding, but Matthew tells of a man\u2026<\/p>\n<\/div>\t\t<div class=\"cppw-paywall paywp-paywall\" data-required-level=\"25\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"cppw-lock-mark\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/span>\n\t\t\t<h2>Continue reading with a subscription<\/h2>\n\t\t\t<p>Get unlimited access to all our premium content and exclusive features.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"cppw-paywall__actions\">\n\t\t\t\t<a class=\"cppw-button wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/zh\/become-a-member\/\">Subscribe now<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<a class=\"cppw-login-link\" href=\"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/zh\/login\/\">Already a subscriber? Sign in<\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<p class=\"cppw-paywall__microcopy\">Enjoy unlimited access, cancel anytime.<\/p>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Yes. In one study two-thirds of newlywed couples included a partner who had felt doubts, and wives&#039; doubts predicted divorce. The Bible sets no rule on it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":111649,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[41],"tags":[],"series":[],"class_list":["post-9067","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-relationships"],"mb":[],"acf":[],"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":9131,"url":"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/zh\/learn\/is-breaking-up-with-someone-a-sin\/","url_meta":{"origin":9067,"position":0},"title":"Is breaking up with someone a sin?","author":"Christian Pure Team","date":"26 9 \u6708, 2024","format":false,"excerpt":"No. The Bible never mentions dating, and no verse requires an unmarried couple to stay together, but its commands on truth and kindness govern how it ends.","rel":"","context":"\u5728\u201cLove And Relationships\u201d\u4e2d","block_context":{"text":"Love And Relationships","link":"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/zh\/learn\/category\/love-relationships\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"The Ascension, in the style of Mantegna","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/christianpure.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hf620-img_00553.webp?fit=900%2C663&ssl=1&resize=350%2C200","width":350,"height":200,"srcset":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/christianpure.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hf620-img_00553.webp?fit=900%2C663&ssl=1&resize=350%2C200 1x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/christianpure.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hf620-img_00553.webp?fit=900%2C663&ssl=1&resize=525%2C300 1.5x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/christianpure.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/hf620-img_00553.webp?fit=900%2C663&ssl=1&resize=700%2C400 2x"},"classes":[]},{"id":3645,"url":"https:\/\/christianpure.com\/zh\/learn\/how-old-was-mary-when-jesus-was-crucified\/","url_meta":{"origin":9067,"position":1},"title":"How Old Was Mary When Jesus Was Born and Crucified? 13 to 16, Then 46 to 53","author":"Christian Pure Team","date":"24 5 \u6708, 2024","format":false,"excerpt":"The Bible gives no age. 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