How important is initial attraction when dating?

Published

August 29, 2024

Summary

The Bible views physical attraction as natural in relationships but stresses inner beauty and godly character as more important.
A godly relationship can develop without initial attraction, often growing from friendship, shared values, and spiritual connection.
In Christian dating, physical attraction should be balanced with factors like shared faith, character, emotional and spiritual connection, and life goals.
God’s love serves as a model for relationships, emphasizing unconditional, patient, enduring, and sacrificial love over superficial attractions.

How does the Bible view physical attraction in relationships? The Bible acknowledges physical attraction as a natural part of human relationships, while also emphasizing the greater importance of inner beauty and godly character. We see this balanced perspective throughout Scripture. In the Song of Solomon, we find poetic descriptions of physical beauty and attraction between lovers. The bride and groom praise each other’s appearance in vivid detail, celebrating the gift of physical intimacy within marriage. This shows that God designed…

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