Prayers for the Recently Deceased: For Their Soul and for the Family



  • To pray for someone who has just died, say their name, thank God for their life and pray for everyone who mourns; if your church prays for the dead, commend the person to God’s mercy too.
  • Catholic and Orthodox Christians pray for the dead; many Protestants do not, and Christians of every church pray for the family.
  • The clearest passage is 2 Maccabees 12:43-46, which Catholic and Orthodox Bibles include and Protestant churches place among the Apocrypha; some also read Paul’s words for Onesiphorus in 2 Timothy 1:16-18 as a prayer for a man who had died, though he may have been alive.
  • In the Orthodox Church a memorial service, the panikhida, is generally held on the third, ninth and fortieth days after a death.
  • Martin Luther wrote that a short prayer for the dead, leaving the matter with God, is not a sin; the Westminster Larger Catechism teaches prayer for the living, “but not for the dead”.
  • Prayer does not move a soul by its own power: it asks God, in whose hands the dead are, and Christ is the light of the world.

To pray for someone who has just died, say their name and thank God for their life. Then pray for everyone who mourns them. Christians whose church prays for the dead also commend the person to God’s mercy and ask him to receive them. A few plain words are enough, alone or with the family. You do not need the right words first. When Lazarus died, Jesus spoke to his grieving sister Martha about himself: “I am the resurrection, and…

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