Is Sex a sin if you’re in love?



  • The Catholic and Orthodox churches and many Protestant churches teach that sex belongs only within marriage, however much a couple is in love.
  • The New Testament forbids porneia, translated “sexual immorality” or “fornication,” and Paul tells unmarried people who cannot exercise self-control to marry (1 Corinthians 7:2, 9).
  • The Catholic Catechism calls fornication gravely wrong and says sexual union is legitimate only once “a definitive community of life” has been established (2353, 2391).
  • The Evangelical Lutheran Church in America frames the question around commitment: it opposes casual sex and does not favor cohabitation, though it does not treat every cohabiting couple alike.
  • Sex within marriage is no sin, and the Catechism says spouses “do nothing evil” in seeking its pleasure (Hebrews 13:4; 1 Corinthians 7:3–5; Catechism 2362).
  • Scholars have argued over how much porneia covers, in articles by Bruce Malina (1972), Joseph Jensen (1978) and Kyle Harper (2012).

Yes, if the two of you are not married: that is the teaching of the Catholic and Orthodox churches and many Protestant churches. They hold that sex belongs only within marriage, and that love, however sincere, does not change this. Within marriage sex is no sin at all. Hebrews 13:4 calls the marriage bed “undefiled.” Love is not the trouble. “Love is from God,” John writes (1 John 4:7), and Scripture is not embarrassed by desire. It gives desire somewhere…

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