When is the right time to start planning your wedding?




  • Marriages in biblical times were often arranged and legally binding betrothals emphasized thoughtful commitment, while the Bible underscores the sanctity and lifelong nature of marriage.
  • The Bible does not prescribe a specific dating period before marriage but encourages a thoughtful, patient approach, emphasizing the development of a deep, Christ-centered love.
  • Formal wedding planning traditionally starts post-engagement to symbolize commitment, though preliminary discussions about the future can be healthy if done humbly and without undue pressure.
  • Prayer should be foundational in wedding planning, guiding decisions and maintaining focus on the sacred nature of the union, while balancing practical preparations with spiritual growth is essential for a strong future together.

What does the Bible say about engagement and wedding planning? While the Bible does not provide explicit instructions about engagement periods or wedding planning as we know them today, it does offer wisdom that can guide us in these matters. In biblical times, marriages were often arranged by families, with betrothals (similar to engagements) being legally binding. We see this, for example, in the story of Mary and Joseph. When Mary was found to be with child, Joseph initially planned…

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