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What Did Jesus Say About Marriage? One Flesh, Joined by God



  • Jesus taught that marriage comes from God at creation, quoting Genesis: the two “shall be one flesh”, and what God has joined no one should put asunder (Matthew 19:4–6).
  • He said Moses allowed divorce because of hard hearts, “but from the beginning it was not so”, and he called divorce followed by remarriage adultery, with an exception for fornication in Matthew.
  • Churches apply his words differently: Catholics allow no second marriage while a valid first one stands, Orthodox churches allow one as an act of mercy, and many Protestants allow divorce for adultery or desertion.
  • Jesus gave his first sign at a wedding in Cana, which the churches read as a blessing on marriage.
  • He said there is no marrying in the resurrection, and he honoured those who stay unmarried for the kingdom, as he did himself.
  • He called himself the bridegroom, and Paul saw in every marriage a picture of Christ’s love for the church.

Jesus taught that marriage is God’s work from the beginning. “He which made them at the beginning made them male and female,” he said, and “they twain shall be one flesh… What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder” (Matthew 19:4–6). He warned against divorce, blessed a wedding at Cana and called himself the bridegroom. Whenever Jesus is asked about marriage, he answers from further back than the question. The Pharisees asked him about the law of…

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