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Dutch A gentle note before you begin: If you are struggling with thoughts of self-harm, please know that your pain is real and you are not alone. These verses are a source of comfort, but they are not a substitute for reaching out for help. Please contact a crisis hotline, a therapist, or a trusted friend or pastor immediately. Your life is precious.
Category 1: God’s Presence in Overwhelming Pain
These verses affirm that God is not distant in our suffering, but draws near to us precisely when we are most broken.
Psaume 34:18
«Le Seigneur est proche des cœurs brisés et sauve ceux qui sont écrasés en esprit.»
Réflexion : This verse speaks directly to the crushing weight of a broken spirit. It’s a tender promise that God does not stand aloof from our agony. Instead, He draws nearest to us precisely when we feel most shattered and alone. The very fragmentation of your heart becomes the place where you can experience His profound presence and binding love most intimately.
Ésaïe 41:10
«Ne craignez donc pas, car je suis avec vous; Ne soyez pas consternés, car je suis votre Dieu. Je te fortifierai et je t'aiderai; Je te soutiendrai de ma droite droite droite.»
Réflexion : This is not a command to simply stop feeling fear, but a powerful reason why we can endure it. The promise is physical and personal: “I will uphold you.” In moments of overwhelming weakness, where the will to stand has vanished, this verse paints a picture of God’s own hand holding you up, providing the strength that you no longer possess.
Deutéronome 31:8
«Le SEIGNEUR lui-même va devant vous et sera avec vous; Il ne vous quittera jamais et ne vous abandonnera jamais. N'ayez pas peur; ne soyez pas découragés.»
Réflexion : The feeling of being utterly abandoned is a core wound in deep emotional distress. This promise challenges that feeling at its root. It speaks of a God who doesn’t just follow us into our darkness, but goes avant us, preparing a way through. You may feel forsaken, but the deepest truth of reality is that you are not and never can be.
Psaume 42:11
«Pourquoi, mon âme, es-tu abattu? Pourquoi être si troublé en moi? Mettez votre espérance en Dieu, car je le louerai encore, lui, mon Sauveur et mon Dieu.»
Réflexion : Here, the Bible gives us permission to be honest about our inner turmoil. The psalmist doesn’t pretend he isn’t downcast or disturbed; he acknowledges the raw reality of his emotional pain. This honest questioning of his own soul, followed by a deliberate, hard-won turn back toward hope in God, is a model for us. It validates the struggle while pointing to the Savior who is present within it.
Category 2: Promises of Hope and a Future
When despair tells you there is no future, these verses declare that God’s story for you is not over.
Jérémie 29:11
«Car je connais les projets que j’ai pour vous», déclare le Seigneur, «des projets pour vous prospérer et ne pas vous nuire, des projets pour vous donner de l’espoir et un avenir».
Réflexion : Despair functions like a thief, stealing all sense of a future. This verse is God’s direct counter-argument. Even when you cannot see a path forward, He holds a plan. It is a plan born not of anger or indifference, but of a deep, fatherly desire for your well-being. Clinging to this promise can be an anchor when the storm of hopelessness rages.
Lamentations 3:21-23
«Pourtant, cela me vient à l’esprit et j’ai donc de l’espoir: À cause du grand amour du Seigneur, nous ne sommes pas consumés, car ses compassions ne manquent jamais. Ils sont nouveaux tous les matins; grande est votre fidélité.»
Réflexion : This passage is written from a place of utter devastation. Yet, in the midst of it, the author performs a sacred act of defiance against his despair: he chooses to mémoriser God’s character. The feeling of being consumed by pain is real, but God’s love is the ultimate reality that prevents our total annihilation. Hope is not a feeling here; it is a choice to believe that morning will bring new mercies, even if the night feels endless.
Jean 10:10
«Le voleur ne vient que pour voler, tuer et détruire; Je suis venu pour qu’ils aient la vie et qu’ils l’aient pleinement.»
Réflexion : Jesus personifies the force that seeks our ruin—it is a “thief” whose only goal is destruction. The impulse toward self-harm aligns with the thief’s mission. But Christ’s mission is the direct opposite: to give life, and not just a bare-minimum existence, but a life that is full and abundant. Choosing to live is choosing to align yourself with the very purpose for which Jesus came.
Ésaïe 40:29-31
«Il donne de la force aux fatigués et augmente la puissance des faibles... mais ceux qui espèrent en l'Éternel renouvelleront leur force. Ils s'élèveront sur des ailes comme des aigles; ils courront et ne se fatigueront pas, ils marcheront et ne s’évanouiront pas.»
Réflexion : Emotional and spiritual exhaustion is a profound reality for those in deep distress. This verse acknowledges that weariness. It promises a supernatural renewal that comes not from our own efforts, but from waiting in hope on the Lord. It offers a vision beyond just surviving; it speaks of soaring again, a beautiful metaphor for a return to vitality and freedom that may feel impossible right now, but which God promises.
Category 3: Your Inseparable Worth to God
Feelings of worthlessness are a lie. These verses ground your value not in your performance or feelings, but in your creation and redemption by God.
Psaume 139:13-14
«Car tu as créé mon être le plus profond; tu m’as tricoté dans le ventre de ma mère. Je te loue parce que je suis terriblement et merveilleusement fait; vos œuvres sont merveilleuses, je le sais très bien.»
Réflexion : Your existence is not an accident. This verse describes a process of intimate, intentional, and artistic creation. You were “knit together” by God himself. Your inherent worth is not based on what you do, but on Who made you. The despair that tells you that you are a burden or a mistake is a direct contradiction to the truth that you are, in your very essence, a wonderful work of God.
Matthieu 10:29-31
«Deux moineaux ne sont-ils pas vendus pour un centime? Pourtant, aucun d’entre eux ne tombera à terre en dehors des soins de votre Père. Et même les cheveux de votre tête sont tous numérotés. N’ayez donc pas peur; vous valez plus que de nombreux moineaux.»
Réflexion : Jesus uses this simple, beautiful illustration to communicate the depth of God’s personal, intricate care. If the Creator is attentive to the life and death of a common bird, how much more is His heart invested in you? The numbering of your hairs signifies a level of intimacy and knowledge that is almost incomprehensible. Your value is not just immense; it is personal and specific to the heart of your Father.
Éphésiens 2:10
«Car nous sommes l’œuvre de Dieu, créée en Jésus-Christ pour faire de bonnes œuvres, que Dieu a préparées à l’avance pour nous.»
Réflexion : This verse gives a powerful two-fold affirmation of your value: your origin and your purpose. You are God’s “handiwork”—His masterpiece (from the Greek word poiema, from which we get “poem”). Furthermore, your life has a purpose that was woven into the fabric of time by God himself. Your current pain does not negate the good works God has prepared for your future.
Romains 8:38-39
«Car je suis convaincu que ni la mort ni la vie, ni les anges ni les démons, ni le présent ni l’avenir, ni aucune puissance, ni la hauteur ni la profondeur, ni rien d’autre dans toute la création, ne pourront nous séparer de l’amour de Dieu qui est en Jésus-Christ notre Seigneur.»
Réflexion : This is one of the most powerful declarations in all of scripture. It builds a case, listing every imaginable force—including the despair of the “present” and the fear of the “future”—and concludes that none of them are powerful enough to sever the bond of God’s love for you in Christ. Your feelings of separation are real, but they are not the ultimate reality. God’s love is.
Category 4: The Call to Endure and Find Strength
These verses acknowledge the struggle is real, but they call us to a posture of endurance, promising that God’s grace is sufficient for our weakness.
2 Corinthiens 12:9-10
«Mais il m’a dit: Ma grâce te suffit, car ma puissance est rendue parfaite dans la faiblesse.» C’est pourquoi je me glorifierai d’autant plus volontiers de mes faiblesses, afin que la puissance du Christ repose sur moi.»
Réflexion : We instinctively hate our weaknesses, especially the profound weakness felt in deep depression. But here, God reframes it entirely. Our weakness is not a barrier to God, but the very place where His power can be most perfectly displayed. This verse invites us to stop fighting our weakness in our own strength and instead see it as an empty space that Christ’s power is eager to fill.
Philippiens 4:13
«Je peux faire tout cela à travers celui qui me donne de la force.»
Réflexion : Often taken out of context, this verse is not about achieving worldly success. Paul wrote it from a place of hardship, speaking of being hungry, in need, and in difficult circumstances. It is a verse about endurance. It is a declaration that the strength to get through this moment, and the next, and the one after that, does not come from within, but is a gift from Christ who strengthens us for the journey.
Matthieu 11:28-30
«Venez à moi, vous tous qui êtes fatigués et accablés, et je vous donnerai du repos. Prenez mon joug sur vous et apprenez de moi, car je suis doux et humble de cœur, et vous trouverez du repos pour vos âmes. Car mon joug est facile et mon fardeau léger.»
Réflexion : This is Jesus’ direct invitation to the emotionally exhausted. He doesn’t command you to “get over it.” He sees that you are weary and burdened and says, “Come.” The rest He offers is a deep, soulful settling that comes from handing over the crushing weight of trying to manage the pain alone. It is an invitation into a partnership with One who is gentle and whose presence brings relief, not more demands.
Jacques 1:12
«Bienheureux celui qui persévère dans les épreuves parce que, ayant résisté à l’épreuve, il recevra la couronne de vie que le Seigneur a promise à ceux qui l’aiment.»
Réflexion : This verse honors the act of perseverance. Simply enduring, simply “standing the test” of this profound trial, is a virtuous and holy act in God’s eyes. It promises that this season of suffering is not meaningless. There is a “crown of life” waiting, a final reward and recognition for the profound difficulty you have faced by choosing to hold on.
Category 5: The Sacredness of Life and the Body
These passages frame our lives and bodies not as our own possessions to do with as we please, but as sacred trusts from God.
1 Corinthiens 6:19-20
«Ne savez-vous pas que vos corps sont des temples du Saint-Esprit, qui est en vous, que vous avez reçu de Dieu? Vous n'êtes pas le vôtre; vous avez été acheté à un prix. C’est pourquoi honorez Dieu de vos corps.»
Réflexion : This changes the entire understanding of self-ownership. Your body is not just a shell for your consciousness; it is a sacred space, a temple where the very Spirit of God dwells. The argument against self-harm here is not one of mere rules, but of profound honor. Your life was purchased at the immense cost of Christ’s own. To honor God with your body is to care for it as the precious, Spirit-inhabited vessel that it is.
Deutéronome 30:19
«J’appelle aujourd’hui les cieux et la terre comme témoins contre vous que j’ai mis devant vous la vie et la mort, les bénédictions et les malédictions. Choisissez maintenant la vie, afin que vous et vos enfants puissiez vivre.»
Réflexion : God places a fundamental choice before humanity, and His passionate plea is that we “choose life.” This is not a cold, detached command; it is the cry of a loving Creator who desperately wants His creation to live and flourish. In a moment when death feels like a solution, this verse reminds us that life is God’s intended blessing, the path He has set before us.
1 Corinthiens 3:16-17
“Don’t you know that you yourselves are God’s temple and that God’s Spirit dwells in your midst? If anyone destroys God’s temple, God will destroy that person; for God’s temple is sacred, and you are that temple.”
Réflexion : This is a sobering and powerful warning about the sanctity of what God has made. The logic is clear: The temple is sacred because God dwells there. You are the temple. Therefore, you are sacred. The destruction spoken of is not a simple threat of hellfire, but a statement of a deep spiritual principle: to destroy what is sacred to God is to place oneself in opposition to God’s own heart and purpose, which is a devastating act.
Genesis 9:5
“And for your lifeblood I will surely demand an accounting. I will demand an accounting from every animal. And from each human being, too, I will demand an accounting for the life of another human being.”
Réflexion : In this foundational covenant with Noah after the flood, God establishes the supreme value of human life. Life is so precious to Him that He holds all of creation to account for it. This verse places our life outside of our own sole jurisdiction. It belongs, in a profound sense, to God, and He considers it of such incalculable worth that He will demand an accounting for it.
Category 6: The Lifesaving Power of Community
Isolation is the environment where despair thrives. These verses command us to break that isolation and find life in connection.
Galates 6:2
« Portez les fardeaux les uns des autres, et ainsi vous accomplirez la loi du Christ. »
Réflexion : This verse is God’s prescription against the lie that you must suffer alone. The “law of Christ” is a law of love, and that love is made tangible when we allow others to help carry the weight that is crushing us. It is not a sign of weakness to share your burden; it is an act of faithful obedience, creating an opportunity for another to show the love of Christ.
Hébreux 10:24-25
«Et examinons comment nous pouvons nous encourager les uns les autres vers l’amour et les bonnes actions, sans renoncer à nous rencontrer, comme certains ont l’habitude de le faire, mais en nous encourageant les uns les autres – et d’autant plus que vous voyez le jour approcher.»
Réflexion : The instinct in depression is to withdraw and isolate. This verse urges us to fight that instinct. Community is not just a social club; it is a means of spiritual survival. We are called to actively “consider” how to stir up hope and love in others, and to receive that same encouragement ourselves. Consistent, honest connection is one of God’s primary tools for sustaining us.
Ecclésiaste 4:9-10
“Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity the one who falls and has no one to help them up!”
Réflexion : This is a piece of timeless wisdom that speaks directly to the danger of isolation. The “fall” described here is not just physical. When we fall into a pit of despair, the presence of another person to help us up can be the difference between life and death. The verse expresses genuine pity for the one who faces that darkness alone, reinforcing God’s design for us to be dependent on one another.
Proverbes 27:17
«Comme le fer aiguise le fer, une personne en aiguise une autre.»
Réflexion : This verse speaks to the constructive power of relationship. A friend who is willing to be “iron” is one who won’t let you rust in your despair. They can challenge the lies you’re believing, help you see reality more clearly, and refine your perspective. This sharpening can be uncomfortable, but it is a process that strengthens you and pulls you back toward a healthier, truer version of yourself.
