Category 1: The Foundation of Character & Integrity
This category focuses on the core of a godly man: his inner wholeness, honesty, and the alignment of his heart and actions.
1. Proverbs 20:7
الصالحون الذين يسيرون في نزاهته مباركين أولاده من بعده.
)ب(التفكير: This verse speaks to the enduring legacy of a man’s character. Integrity isn’t just about personal piety; it’s a gift of emotional and spiritual stability given to the next generation. A man whose actions and heart are aligned creates a home atmosphere of trust and security, a sanctuary where his children can flourish without the confusion and anxiety that hypocrisy breeds. This is a quiet, profound strength that echoes through time.
2. Psalm 1:1-3
“Blessed is the man who walks not in the counsel of the wicked, nor stands in the way of sinners, nor sits in the seat of scoffers; but his delight is in the law of the Lord, and on his law he meditates day and night. He is like a tree planted by streams of water that yields its fruit in its season, and its leaf does not wither. In all that he does, he prospers.”
)ب(التفكير: This is a beautiful portrait of emotional and spiritual wellness. The godly man finds his joy—his deep, settled delight—not in cynicism or rebellion, but in the life-giving truth of God. This consistent inner nourishment builds a resilient spirit. He isn’t easily swayed by external pressures or internal droughts because his roots go deep into a source of constant life. The result is a life that is fruitful and stable, not as a reward, but as a natural outcome of where he is planted.
3. Proverbs 10:9
"كل من يسير في نزاهة يمشي بأمان ، ولكن الذي يجعل طرقه ملتوية سيتم اكتشافها."
)ب(التفكير: Integrity creates a state of inner peace. Living a single, honest life eliminates the enormous mental and emotional energy required to manage deceit. There is no fear of exposure, no internal fragmentation. This security isn’t about a lack of problems, but a lack of inner turmoil. A crooked path, however, is a life of constant vigilance and fear, an exhausting state that eventually collapses under its own weight.
4. Titus 2:7-8
أظهر لنفسك من جميع النواحي أن تكون نموذجًا للأعمال الصالحة ، وفي تعليمك تظهر النزاهة والكرامة والكلام السليم الذي لا يمكن إدانته ، بحيث يمكن وضع الخصم في العار ، وليس لديه شيء شرير ليقوله عنا.
)ب(التفكير: A godly man understands that his life is his most powerful message. His character—marked by dignity and wholeness—should be so evident that it silences criticism. This isn’t about achieving a fragile, image-based perfection, but about cultivating a settled authenticity. It’s a call to a life so integrated that one’s words, actions, and inner convictions are all in harmony, creating a powerful, non-anxious presence.
Category 2: The Heart of Devotion & Humility
These verses explore the source of a man’s strength: his dependent, reverent, and humble relationship with God.
5. Micah 6:8
قال لك يا رجل ما هو خير. وماذا يطلب منك الرب إلا أن تفعل العدل وأن تحب اللطف وأن تسلك بتواضع مع إلهك؟
)ب(التفكير: This verse distills the essence of a divinely-oriented life into three core postures. “Do justice” is our outward action in the world. “Love kindness” (or mercy) is the posture of our heart toward others, full of compassion and grace. But the foundation is to “walk humbly with your God.” This describes an ongoing, relational journey, not a static achievement. It’s a life free from the burden of pride and self-reliance, finding its rhythm in intimate companionship with the Creator.
6. Psalm 112:1
“Praise the Lord! Blessed is the man who fears the Lord, who greatly delights in his commandments.”
)ب(التفكير: This verse beautifully joins two seemingly opposite emotions: fear and delight. The “fear of the Lord” is not a state of terror, but of profound awe and reverence that correctly orients a man to reality. This reverence, in turn, unlocks deep joy and delight in living according to God’s design. It’s a move from seeing God’s commands as restrictive burdens to experiencing them as the very framework for human flourishing and inner freedom.
7. Matthew 6:33
واطلبوا اولا ملكوت الله وبره وكل هذا يضاف اليكم.
)ب(التفكير: This is a powerful antidote to the anxiety that plagues so many. A man is called to establish a primary, organizing principle for his life. By prioritizing God’s loving rule and righteous way of living, he finds that the secondary concerns of life—provision, security, status—are reordered and put into proper perspective. It calms the anxious striving that comes from a divided heart and builds a settled trust that God is a faithful provider.
8. 2 Corinthians 5:17
لذلك، إذا كان أحد في المسيح، فهو خليقة جديدة. القديم قد توفي. انظروا، لقد جاء الجديد.
)ب(التفكير: This is the foundational truth for any man seeking godliness. It declares that a man’s identity is not defined by his past failures, his compulsions, or his wounds. In Christ, he is given a fundamentally new nature. This is not just a behavioral adjustment but a deep, ontological shift. Understanding this provides the freedom and power to break from old, destructive patterns and live from a new center of worth and purpose given by God himself.
Category 3: Strength, Courage, & Resilience
This section addresses the fortitude required of a godly man—a strength sourced in God, not in self.
9. Joshua 1:9
ألم آمرك؟ كن قويا وشجاعا. لا تخافوا ولا ترتعبوا لأن الرب إلهكم معكم أينما ذهبتم.
)ب(التفكير: Courage, from a biblical perspective, is not the absence of fear but the decision to act in the presence of it. This command links a man’s strength directly to his awareness of God’s presence. The call to be “strong and courageous” is not a pull-yourself-up-by-your-bootstraps command. It is a reminder that his fortitude is sourced in the unshakable reality that he is never, ever alone. This knowledge metabolizes fear and dismay into resolve.
10. 1 كورنثوس 16: 13
"كن يقظًا ، قف ثابتًا في الإيمان ، تصرف مثل الرجال ، كن قويًا".
)ب(التفكير: This is a clarion call to mature, spiritual manliness. “Be watchful” implies emotional and spiritual self-awareness. “Stand firm” speaks of unwavering conviction. “Act like men” (or, ‘be courageous’) calls for responsibility and fortitude. “Be strong” is the summary. This isn’t a call to macho aggression, but to a settled, resilient strength rooted in faith—the kind of strength that is dependable, protects others, and endures under pressure.
11. 2 Timothy 1:7
لأن الله أعطانا روحًا لا خوفًا بل من القوة والمحبة وضبط النفس.
)ب(التفكير: This verse diagnoses a core human struggle and provides its divine remedy. Fear cripples our spirit, leading to passivity or aggression. God replaces this with a tripartite spirit of emotional health. “Power” is the capacity to act and fulfill our purpose. “Love” is the orientation of that power toward the good of others. “Self-control” (or a sound mind) is the internal governor that brings wisdom and discipline to our power and love. A godly man cultivates these three gifts to overcome a spirit of timidity.
12. Proverbs 28:1
"الشرير يهرب عندما لا يسعى أحد، ولكن الصالحين جريء كالأسد".
)ب(التفكير: This illustrates the inner world of guilt versus that of a clear conscience. A life of wrongdoing creates a state of perpetual paranoia and flight—a person is running from himself. The righteous man, however, whose life is aligned with truth, possesses a calm and confident boldness. This is not arrogance. It is the deep, internal quiet that comes from having nothing to hide, allowing him to face the world with courage and an open heart.
Category 4: Wisdom & Self-Control
A godly man is not ruled by his impulses, but rather governs his inner world with wisdom and discipline.
13. James 1:19
"اعلموا هذا يا إخوتي الأحباء: دع كل شخص يسرع في سماعه ، ببطء في الكلام ، ببطء في الغضب.
)ب(التفكير: This is a prescription for relational intelligence. The desire to speak quickly and react in anger often stems from insecurity and a need to control. A man who is secure in his identity is free to truly listen, to offer others the gift of his full attention. By cultivating slowness—a pause between stimulus and response—he makes space for wisdom and empathy to enter, preventing the immense relational damage that reactive anger always causes.
14. Proverbs 16:32
“Whoever is slow to anger is better than the mighty, and he who rules his spirit than he who takes a city.”
)ب(التفكير: Our culture often lionizes external power—the one who can conquer, build, and achieve. This proverb radically redefines strength. It declares that the greatest victory a man can achieve is mastery over his own inner world. Ruling one’s own spirit—our impulses, our rage, our anxieties—requires more fortitude and produces more profound peace than any external conquest. True might is self-possession.
15. Proverbs 4:23
حافظ على قلبك بكل يقظة ، لأنه يتدفق من ينابيع الحياة.
)ب(التفكير: The “heart” in Hebraic thought is the core of the person—the seat of will, thought, and emotion. This verse is a call to be a careful guardian of one’s inner world. A man must be profoundly aware of what he allows to captivate his affections, shape his thoughts, and stir his emotions. He understands that his external life—his words, actions, relationships—is merely an overflow of this internal wellspring. A healthy life flows from a guarded heart.
16. 1 Timothy 3:2
“Therefore an overseer must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, sober-minded, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach,”
)ب(التفكير: While this list is for church leaders, it provides a powerful template for all godly men. Notice how many qualities relate to the internal state: “sober-minded,” “self-controlled,” “respectable.” This is a man who is not captive to his appetites or moods. He possesses a stability and temperance that makes him a safe person for others. His life is orderly and well-managed from the inside out, making him a haven of hospitality rather than a source of chaos.
Category 5: Love & Leadership in the Family
These verses articulate a man’s high calling to love, serve, and nurture within his most intimate relationships.
17. Ephesians 5:25
"أزواج، أحبوا زوجاتكم، كما أحب المسيح الكنيسة وأسلم نفسه من أجلها".
)ب(التفكير: This is perhaps the most radical and demanding command for a husband in all of Scripture. It defines love not as a feeling, but as a resolute act of self-sacrifice for the flourishing of another. A godly man’s love is not about what he receives, but what he gives. It is a love that willingly absorbs cost, provides security, and is aimed at his wife’s ultimate good and sanctification. It is a love that makes a woman feel profoundly safe and cherished.
18. Colossians 3:19
“Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them.”
)ب(التفكير: This verse is a crucial, practical addendum to the call for sacrificial love. It targets a specific and destructive temptation: harshness. This can be sharp words, an irritable tone, or an emotionally cutting spirit. Such behavior, born of stress or selfishness, inflicts deep wounds on the heart of a spouse. A godly man is called to cultivate a spirit of tenderness and to actively root out the harshness that can poison intimacy.
19. Ephesians 6:4
"أيها الآباء، لا تغضبوا أولادكم، بل ارفعوهم في تأديب الرب وتعليمه".
)ب(التفكير: This is a profound piece of parenting psychology. It recognizes that a father’s power can either build up or crush a child’s spirit. To “provoke” a child is to exasperate them through hypocrisy, unpredictability, excessive harshness, or emotional neglect, creating deep-seated anger and resentment. Instead, a father is called to provide a stable, loving structure (“discipline and instruction”) that feels like a supportive trellis, not a crushing weight.
20. 1 Peter 3:7
“Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers will not be hindered.”
)ب(التفكير: This calls a man to be a student of his wife. “Live in an understanding way” is a command for relational empathy—to learn her emotional world, her needs, her strengths. The call to show “honor” counters any impulse to dominate. It recognizes her inherent, equal dignity as a co-heir in God’s kingdom. The shocking conclusion—that a failure in this empathy and honor can actually damage a man’s own connection with God—shows just how central relational health is to spiritual life.
Category 6: Purpose, Diligence, & Stewardship
A godly man’s character is expressed through his work, his stewardship of resources, and his responsible engagement with the world.
21. Colossians 3:23
“Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men,”
)ب(التفكير: This verse transforms the nature of work. It lifts it from being merely a way to earn a paycheck or impress a boss into an act of worship. A godly man finds his ultimate motivation not in external rewards, but in the knowledge that his effort is an offering to God. This brings purpose to the mundane, integrity to the unseen tasks, and a resilient work ethic that is not dependent on praise or promotion.
22. Proverbs 12:24
“The hand of the diligent will rule, but the slothful will be put to forced labor.”
)ب(التفكير: This is a wisdom principle about the emotional and practical consequences of our approach to responsibility. Diligence—a steady, conscientious application of effort—naturally leads to greater autonomy, influence, and freedom (“rule”). Sloth, or apathy, however, creates a life where one is always reacting, always subject to the demands of others and the tyranny of urgent, last-minute pressures (“forced labor”). Diligence builds a life of agency; sloth builds a life of servitude.
23. Genesis 2:15
“The Lord God took the man and put him in the garden of Eden to work it and keep it.”
)ب(التفكير: This verse establishes work as a core, God-given part of a man’s identity, pre-dating any fall or curse. Work is not a necessary evil; it is a primary calling. The call is twofold: “to work it” (to cultivate, to make fruitful, to build) and “to keep it” (to protect, to sustain, to care for). A godly man sees his labor not as mere toil, but as a noble partnership with God in cultivating and stewarding the world.
24. 1 Thessalonians 4:11-12
“…and to make it your ambition to lead a quiet life: You should mind your own business and work with your hands, just as we told you, so that your daily life may win the respect of outsiders and so that you will not be dependent on anybody.”
)ب(التفكير: In a world that often prizes loud ambition and public acclaim, this verse celebrates the profound dignity of a quiet, responsible life. It calls a man to a sense of focused, personal responsibility (“mind your own business”) and diligent labor. The goal is a life of such integrity and self-sufficiency that it becomes a powerful, non-verbal witness to others and frees him from the anxiety of dependency. There is a deep peace and strength in this quiet competence.
