Who Are The Amish?35 articles

Amish Marriage and Children: Wedding Age, Family Size and Birth Customs



  • Amish couples usually marry in their early twenties: in recent studies of settlement directories, brides averaged about 21 to 22 and grooms about 22.3 to 23.9.
  • A typical Amish mother has her first baby at about 22 to 23.5, a year to a year and a half after the wedding. None of these studies gives an age at first pregnancy; subtracting nine months from the age at first birth gives about 21 to 23.
  • The Young Center for Anabaptist and Pietist Studies counts five or more children on average in Amish families; women who have finished having children average about six to eight, from 5.8 among Holmes County New Order women to 10.4 among the Swartzentruber in Henry Troyer’s 2022 study.
  • The Amish marry only other baptized members of the church, do not permit first cousins to marry, and do not allow divorce.
  • In Lancaster County about three Amish weddings in four from 2010 to 2014 took place in November, almost all on a Tuesday or a Thursday; in Holmes County, Ohio, May and September are now the most popular months.
  • Amish women give birth at home, in birth centers or in hospitals; among the Amish of southwestern Wisconsin, 58 percent of babies born from 2005 to 2009 were born at home.
  • Amish teaching leaves the number of children to God, but practice varies: in a survey published in 2007, 21 percent of 249 married Amish women aged 18 to 45 in Lancaster County said they were using birth control.

Amish couples usually marry in their early twenties, the bride at about 21 or 22 and the groom a year or two older. Their first child usually arrives a year to a year and a half after the wedding. Families average five or more children, says the Young Center for Anabaptist and Pietist Studies at Elizabethtown College. Most of these figures come from the family directories that many large Amish communities compile, listing each household with its wedding date and…

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