Prayers for Self-Love: Seeing Yourself as God Sees You

  • The command “Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself” (Matthew 22:39; Leviticus 19:18) assumes a right love of self, while 2 Timothy 3:2 condemns “lovers of their own selves.”
  • Thomas Aquinas taught in the Summa Theologica that a person ought to love himself out of charity, and blamed self-love only when it serves the lower appetites.
  • The Catholic Act of Charity (1888 Manual of Prayers) orders love as God first, then “my neighbor as myself for the love of Thee.”
  • Short prayers cover appearance, a critical inner voice, self-forgiveness, comparison, care of the body, healthy limits, love toward others, pride, and a friend who hates himself or herself.
  • Psalm 139:23–24 and the Collect for Purity from the 1928 Book of Common Prayer are given as traditional prayers.
  • Anyone thinking of self-harm can call or text 988 in the US or call Samaritans on 116 123 in the UK and Ireland.

Christians can pray to see themselves as God sees them: made by him, loved by him and forgiven. One prayer for that: “Father, you made me and you love me. Teach me to look at myself without contempt and without pride, to care for what you made, and to love other people as you have loved me. Amen.” If you hate yourself so much that you think about hurting yourself or ending your life, tell someone today. In the US,…

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